now, I spoke with emily about this because my first inclination was to mock her mercilessly, what I found out is far stranger. You see emily sent us a very nice gift for are yet to be named offspring and the card in the box was this one. I began to chuckle almost immediately. You see this would be an awesome card if I was sending it to her, because her name's on it.... Again, I chuckled. Come to find out my sister received these as a gift from someone, and while the cards appeared to be made professionally. It begs the question of the gift giver assumed em was gonna use these for. I guess if you really wanted to let people know how awesome you were before they even read the card. What I believe is that you give these to people when you give them presents, with a envelope with prepaid postage of course. This makes sure you are properly thanked for your grandiose gesture. Or if you're normal like em you send them to family, because it seems strange to use them at all, and hope they don't throw it out on the internet for anyone to see....